Have You Ever Been Hurt by Your Spouse? - By Mugendi Elizaphan
If your spouse has hurt you, please know that it was not deliberate. You may be having all the evidence related to how he or she planned to mess your life and is not even remorseful. We all know very well that the most serious heartaches and disappointments in life are caused by the most close and dear people to us.
People we have shared deeply with and committed our lives and secrets to and many other precious and fond memories we have about them. As a Christian, I draw a lot of valuable lessons from the life of Jesus Christ. Judas Iscariot was the treasurer of Jesus' ministry and yet he betrayed Him. Peter was the closest of the three close disciples to Jesus and yet he denied Him at the hour of need. Yet in all this Jesus never revenged or took offense. It is true denial and betrayal by a person dear to you is painful beyond description but there is still hope. Jesus met Peter later and their relationship was restored to higher level than it was before.
The reason I am telling you that your spouse did not hurt you intentionally is that if you remember the good times you have shared together, then you can be a witness that something wrong happened to your spouse. He or she can not be the same person that gave you all the affection and yet now is working against you. He or she is not the same.
There is need for restoration. Your spouse must be going through some difficult moments that need very close attention for him or her to be restored to the former state. Please do not take offense. Though you are the offended one, seek to help your offender because there is need for restoration. Your spouse could just be a captive of some unspoken challenges and therefore, needs help. Please forgive and help.
Mugendi is a re-known and sought after counselor. He is involved in both individual and group counseling. Your Marriage Counselor. He is also an accomplished minister of the gospel. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Mugendi_Elizaphan Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/2617399
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