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Friday, June 21, 2013

Christian Parenting - The Key Foundation to Raising Godly Kids

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Christian Parenting - The Key Foundation to Raising Godly Kids - Douglas Hammett

Raising Godly kids is a job that Christians have long inquired about the key to success. The most important foundation principle begins with Christian parents.
Raising a family is challenging in these economic times and influence from sources outside the home are hard to counterbalance. While every parent wants what is best for their children, every child is different in approaches to discipline, teaching and play must be customized to fit the personality and needs of each child. While every child is unique and requires individualized attention, instruction and guidance, there are some principles that apply to child rearing no matter what your child's disposition.
Christian families around the world have relied on the Bible and simple Christian parenting tips to create strong, healthy, happy families that are built on the values and instructions set forth by Christ. While life is not always easy for the Christian parent, the Bible provides a map to assist families along the path of child rearing. Using the Bible as a blueprint for life, families can become strong, vibrant, close-knit and bonded for life.
Being a Strong Christian Parent is the Best Gift You Can Give Your Child
Strong Christian parenting begins with a personal relationship with the Lord. A foundation of a relationship with Christ is the bedrock of all else in the family.
In addition Christian parents know the family's foundation depends on the relationship between the mother and father. A loving, stable, respectful and monogamous relationship between parents is the easiest and healthiest way to show your children how loving, committed relationships should look and feel.
By treating each other with respect, kindness, compassion and love, parents show their children the supportive role God intended our mates to play in our lives. Seeing lessons of love, compassion, compromise, helpfulness, consideration and care in action daily will help children create an image of how healthy relationships work.
When Christian parents live day-to-day life emulating God's Word, children see the value and pleasure derived from living honestly, helping others and offering unconditional love.
Creating a tight bond between parents creates a feeling of safety, security and stability children crave and appreciate. Knowing their parents are solid, loving and committed to staying together relieves a lot of pressure of a young child' mind and allows them to focus on things important to children and their development. Never worrying about whose house they will spend the weekend in, who will have them for holidays and how everyone will get along is one of the greatest gift you can give your children.
Traditional Christian parenting and lifestyle choices will help solidify your marriage and give your children the peace of mind that comes from having divorce proof parents.
Showing your children the value of working through issues when things get tough, staying committed to your word and working on and cherishing your marriage in good times and bad will go a long way in making your children secure, confident and responsible adults. Modeling healthy behavior in your marriage will show your children what to look for in their mate and will also help them be a good mate for their future partner.
Teaching Life Lessons as a Christian Parent
Guiding your children along life's path will certainly not be without obstacles and challenges. Help prepare your children for the unexpected turns and changes of life by arming them with Christian guidance, faith and belief that will help them navigate through life's storms.
When children grow up in a household of Christian parents, they are taught how to live a full, rich life that adheres to the teachings and values set forth by Christ. Bible living will produce peace, happiness, contentment, and joy through right living and actions.
When children make choices they know are morally sound and in accord with their family's belief system, they get a sense of pride and accomplishment. The good feeling they get from doing the right thing will encourage them to make smart decisions and stay on the path you have set out for them.
Watching their parents handle difficult decisions with prayer and reflection will teach children the value of asking for help and seeking God's counsel. Seeing their parents talk through hot button issues with respect, love and a spirit of compromise will teach children the values of compassion and patience so important in the teachings of Christ.
Learning that the commitment made between a man and a woman in marriage is a life-long bond meant to be nurtured and treasured is best taught with an active, loving, engaged and committed mother and father modeling Christian behaviors every day in the home.
Psychologists have long noted how children pick mates with qualities similar to their parents, so be sure the qualities and personality traits your children you seek are the kind that will attract loving, healthy mates for your children.
The old saying, "do what I say and not what I do," simply will not work, you must make sure your home displays Christian parenting and values. Live your life according to God's plan and commit to making your marriage reflect Christ's plan for love between a man and a woman and your children will follow along the same path when they find a mate and leave your home. Knowing you have given your children, and in turn your future grandchildren, the gift of Christ-like living will give you pleasure, joy and peace of mind in your golden years and as you watch your family grow and expand.
Being a strong Christian parent begins with a strong Christian marriage. Committing to work through all issues that come your way and never seeing divorce as an option will make your children feel safe, secure and stable.
Giving children this stability frees them from household worries they should never have and allows them to focus on learning, growing, and enjoying being a child.
A healthy happy childhood lays a firm foundation for a happy, successful adulthood and that is the goal of all Christian parents.
Raising happy, successful, respectful children to become responsible, productive members of society is difficult, but the blueprint found in God's Word is a terrific source of information that can help you get through any problems, stresses, or circumstances life throws your way gracefully and righteously.
Providing your children Christian parents is the first and foremost step in strong parenting.
You can find powerful lessons and help at www.Christian-Parenting.org Douglas Hammett has raised 4 children and now is enjoying his grandchildren. He has spent over 38 years in the ministry helping families raise strong, godly kids. If you are looking for real help in raising your children, check out Christian Parenting University at www.Christian-Parenting.org Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Douglas_Hammett  Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/6561037 



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